When Henrik’s due date arrived and he was still sitting
comfy in the womb, I think I lost all hope.
All hope of being able to experience going into labor naturally. I think I was completely convinced that my
body just simply didn’t know how to go into labor. My next appointment with my
Midwife was scheduled for Tuesday, March 17th, which she warned me
that we would have to start talking about a “plan” at that appointment if we made
it there.
Monday night Kim sent me a text to just check in and see how
I was feeling. I told her I was feeling
way too good to be going into labor anytime soon so we were just going to wait
and see what my Midwife had to say at tomorrow’s appointment.
We tucked Hanley in for bed that night, having no clue that
would be our last evening as a family of three.
At 2am, I woke up with some mild contractions. By 2:30am, they were strong enough that I was
uncomfortable laying down. Cody woke up
and asked if I was okay. I assured him I
was just fine and told him to go back to sleep. I went downstairs and started doing dishes
just to take my mind off the contractions. By 3:30am, I went back upstairs and
woke Cody up. I told him my contractions
were 10 mins apart and I thought we needed to just start taking about a plan. He
thought we needed to call the Moms and have them make the drive up but I
hesitated. I told him I didn’t want them
to get halfway here and have my contractions suddenly stop. It took him 15 minutes to talk me into calling
my Mom. She of course jumped in the car and headed north right away. Cody
called his Mom a short time later and said, “Chelsea’s having
contractions. You have time but you
might want to think about coming up.” The plan was for my Mom to come to the
house to take care of Hanley and Kim meet us at the hospital to be there for
the delivery (since my Mom was present for Hanley’s birth, we thought Kim might
like to be there for Henrik’s birth).
Cody and I threw some last minute things into the hospital
bag but I kept insisting I could wait it out until my Mom arrived. Soon, I was
having a hard time talking through my contractions. Cody timed them and
realized they were only 3 minutes apart but I kept insisting I was just fine
and we would wait. “My worst fear is to
get to the hospital too early” I kept telling him (I mean, how discouraging
would that be to get to the hospital and have them send you back home because
your not far enough along!).
Cody called Kim back and told her things were progressing
fast and she better get on the road.
We figured my Mom was still about an hour out. Despite my
reservations, we started making calls to see if we could get someone over to
the house to bridge the gap until my Mom arrived because Cody was certain we needed
to be leaving for the hospital. My first couple calls went unanswered. A couple
minutes later my phone rang and it was our friend and old neighbor calling back. I picked up the phone and Tammy didn’t ask any
questions, she just said she would be right over! Talk about a huge
relief!! She was there in 10 minutes stat then we were out the door.
The drive to the hospital was horrible. I couldn’t sit through my contractions so I
was on all fours with my knees in the front seat, my body slung over the center
console with my hands on the backseat.
In triage, they hooked me up to the monitors and realized I
was pumping out contractions every 2 minutes then checked me. I was 8 cm dilated.
They didn’t waste any time getting us into a delivery room.
We walked into the delivery room
at 6:00am.
The nurse said, “Oh how exciting. Your going to have a Saint
Patrick’s Day baby!”.
Cody (with his only other birthing
experience being Hanley’s lengthy one) responded honestly with “Well, we hope we have a baby today.”
She looked at Cody puzzled and
said “Um…I am off work in an hour. Your going to be have this baby on my shift.”
My water broke at 6:12am. 10 mins later, I was pushing. Henrik Loren Olson was born at 6:48am. Everything just happened so
quick.
No INDUCTION, No medical interventions, they threw Henrik
right up on my chest as soon as he came out and Cody got to cut the umbilical
cord. It was the birthing experience I had hoped for.
Kim missed Henrik’s birth by no more than 5 minutes. She walked into the room with a crying baby
already in my arms. I think if it was up
to her, she would have had Henrik slow things down just a little bit!
We feel beyond blessed to have a happy, healthy little guy. We love all 7 lbs, 12 oz and 20 inches of him. He is simply the perfect completion to our family.
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